Family

Family, reather it be in-laws, step brothers or sisters, I seam to have a few of all. It is really hard when you find out that a member of your family has passed away and it is harder to find out two (2) months later that they are gone and you didn't even get to wish they a safe journy or pray they go to a place of peace. My step-father passed Dec. 31, 2008 and just now finding out kinda hurts. So what do you do. I have tryed to call several persons and I have gotten no response. My mother Betty passed way back in 1974 or so and sense then my family hasn't really tryed to contact me. I spoke to my step father about 3 years ago and I knew he was very ill, he told me or he promised me he would some how have someone advise be if things got worse, but that didnot happen. I have a wonderful step-brother who is very smart and should have let me know if there was any thing I could do to help with arrangments. But I haven't to this day heard from him. My half sister, witch that was her father, just tryed to comtact me and my brother (full brother)and so I call him to find out what is going on. He said our sister was so druged up that he really didn't know what was going on. I trully belive she was more worried about what money he was leaving her so she could use it for her habit, but God bless her so wasn't in formed of anything. Maybe Lance (step-brother) will call me soon and let me know when in May my step-fathers ashes will be put where he wished. God bless all my family and I paray I heard from them soon.